إذا قام بذلك، إحملي أغراضك وارحلي فورًا! تحديد موعد عند الطبيب النسائي مهمة صعبة عند أغلبية النساء فيؤجلنه دائمًا ويتوتّرن ويترددن.
لذا تميل النساء إلى الحفاظ على الطبيب النسائي نفسه طوال الحياة بكل بساطة لأنهنّ تجرأن على التعرّي أمامه لأول مرة ولا يرغبن في تكرار هذه العملية مع شخص آخر.
ولكن هذا خطأ! عليكِ أن تختاري طبيبًا نسائًيا جيّدًا حقًا، أي شخص لا يضعك في إحدى هذه المواقف السبعة التي نذكرها لك من ifarasha ! 1 عليه ألا يُشعِرك بالأسى حيال جسدك لا أحد يحق له أن يُشعرك بالأسى حيال جسدك فكيف بالأحرى طبيبك النسائي.
فهو شخص محترف ولا يملك أي سبب وجيه لكي يقدّم لكِ ملاحظة حول حجم ثدييك أو حول شعر جسمك وحول أي موضوع آخر إلا إن كان ذلك لدواعٍ طبية.
لا يحق له أن يحكم على خياراتك في الحياة من الطبيعي أن يطرح عليكِ طبيبك النسائي أسئلة شخصية لكي يفهم كيف يعمل جسدك ولماذا.
ولكن لا يحق له أن يقيّم إجاباتك: لا يهمّ إن كنت قد فقدت عذريتك (أو لا) ولا عدد شركائك الجنسيين فليس عليه أن يركّز إلا على وجهة النظر الطبية.
لا يحق له أن يفحصك من دون أن يطلب إذنك أولًا لا يتردد بعض الأطباء النسائيين في الإنكباب على فحص مهبلك حتى من دون إعلامك قبل ذلك. ربما قد تكون عادة أو نسيان ولكن هذا خطأ لا يُغتَفر.
عليه أن يعلمك دائمًا بما ينوي فعله لكي تعطيه موافقتك. إنها ليست مسألة مادية ولكنها مسألة كرامة!
لا يمكنه أن يقوم بأي شيء بك من دون أن يفسّر لك قبلًا عليكِ أن تكوني مرتاحة عندما تذهبي لزيارة الطبيب. إنها القاعدة الأساسية، ولكن على الرغم من أنك تشعرين بالانزعاج وبالعري والضياع والحيرة تذهبين من أجل صحتك.
يجب أن تكون ثقتك بطبيبك النسائي تامة لكي تستطيعي أن تخبريه بأي أمر يزعجك أو يؤلمك أو يُشعِركِ بالمرض. إنه جسمك إنها قراراتك!
لا يحق له أن يفصح لعائلتك بما أخبرته به أثناء المعاينة كيف تأتمنين طبيبًا على سرك (سرك الطبي) إن لم تكوني واثقة من أنه سيكتمه؟ على الطبيب النسائي أن يحترم حياتك الخاصة مهما حصل حتى ولو سمع أحيانًا أمورًا مزعجة.
لا يحق له أن يؤثر عليك بأي طريقة كانت نعم إنه طبيب ولا شك في أنه يملك خبرة ولكن قبل كل شيء هو طبيب عليه ان يكون موضوعيًا وأن ينصحك بما هو الأفضل لصحّتك من دون أن يتأثر بالمعتقدات والرأي الشخصي.
لا يحق له أن يقول لك إنك تضيّعين وقتك أو أنك تضيعين وقته. كل النساء تراودهن شكوك حول صحتهنّ الجنسية أو جهازهنّ التناسلي من وقت إلى آخر.
يجب استشارة الطبيب: هذا الأمر ليس سخفًا بل حذرًا. إن لم يكن طبيبك النسائي مستعدّا لمساعدتك فهو لا يستحق وجودك عنده «ولا نقودك».
إذهبي فورًا لاستشارة طبيب آخر. مع الأمل بألا تعيشي أبدًا أيّ من هذه التجارب المزعجة!
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But it is not entitled to evaluate your answers: It does not matter if you've lost Adhiratk (or not) and the number of sexual partners he does not have to focus only on the medical point of view.
It is not entitled to be examined by without asking your permission first some Gynecologists does not hesitate to embark on checking your vagina without even notified before that. Or perhaps you would normally be forgotten, but this unforgivable mistake.
He can always teach you what he intends to do in order to give your consent. It's not a physical issue, but a matter of dignity!
It can not do anything without your explain to you once you have to be comfortable when you go to visit a doctor. It's the basic rule, but even though you feel disturbed and nudity and loss and confusion are you going for your health.
You must trust your doctor so that women be fully Tsttiei to tell him any order bother you or hurts or makes you feel sick. It's your body that your decisions!
It is not entitled to disclose to your family as I told him during a preview on how to confide in a doctor SRC (SRC medical) that you're not confident that Sictmh? The gynecologist to respect your own life no matter what happens, even if sometimes heard disturbing things.
You are not entitled to affect you in any way a doctor Yes, it is no doubt that he has the experience, but above all, is a doctor for him to be objective and to advise what is best for your health without being influenced by beliefs and personal opinion.
You are not entitled to say to you that you Tadhaaan your time or you Tadhaaan his time. All women Traudhn doubts about their sexual or reproductive Jhazhn from time to time.
You should consult your doctor: This is not absurd but cautious. The female doctor was not ready to help you, he does not deserve and you're with him «no money».
'Go immediately to consult another doctor. With the hope that you never do you live any of these pesky experiments!
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If he did so, Carry your purposes and Arhali immediately! Setting a date when the gynecologist difficult task when the majority of women Viagelnh always Atoturn and hesitant.
So women tend to maintain a gynecologist himself throughout life simply because they dared to strip naked in front of him for the first time do not want to repeat the process with another person.
But this is wrong! You can choose a female doctor really well, anyone who does not put you in one of these seven situations that remind you of ifarasha! 1 It should not make you feel distressed about your body no one has the right to make you feel distressed about how your body rather female doctor.
He is a professional person and does not have any good reason to give you a note about the size of your breasts or hair on your body and on any other subject, but if it was for medical reasons.
Is not entitled to be judged on your options in life is natural to ask you doctor female personal questions in order to understand how your body works and why.
But it is not entitled to evaluate your answers: It does not matter if you've lost Adhiratk (or not) and the number of sexual partners he does not have to focus only on the medical point of view.
It is not entitled to be examined by without asking your permission first some Gynecologists does not hesitate to embark on checking your vagina without even notified before that. Or perhaps you would normally be forgotten, but this unforgivable mistake.
He can always teach you what he intends to do in order to give your consent. It's not a physical issue, but a matter of dignity!
It can not do anything without your explain to you once you have to be comfortable when you go to visit a doctor. It's the basic rule, but even though you feel disturbed and nudity and loss and confusion are you going for your health.
You must trust your doctor so that women be fully Tsttiei to tell him any order bother you or hurts or makes you feel sick. It's your body that your decisions!
It is not entitled to disclose to your family as I told him during a preview on how to confide in a doctor SRC (SRC medical) that you're not confident that Sictmh? The gynecologist to respect your own life no matter what happens, even if sometimes heard disturbing things.
You are not entitled to affect you in any way a doctor Yes, it is no doubt that he has the experience, but above all, is a doctor for him to be objective and to advise what is best for your health without being influenced by beliefs and personal opinion.
You are not entitled to say to you that you Tadhaaan your time or you Tadhaaan his time. All women Traudhn doubts about their sexual or reproductive Jhazhn from time to time.
You should consult your doctor: This is not absurd but cautious. The female doctor was not ready to help you, he does not deserve and you're with him «no money».
'Go immediately to consult another doctor. With the hope that you never do you live any of these pesky experiments!